| Most
parents will naturally rub their baby's
back or play with their baby's legs
on a regular basis. In fact, this is
the simplest kind of bonding that you
can have with your baby and can form
part of a massage routine that you can
share together. Massaging
your baby is not only an intimate
way for you to spend time with him/her,
it's also a great way to maintain
his/her health. You're gently exercising
your baby's muscles to encourage growth
as well as help with digestion and
the absorption of nutrition. It also
comforts your baby and creates a sense
of well-being, which is perfect before
his/her bedtime.
You can start with
a massage routine as early as 2 or
3 days after birth. The best time
for massaging your baby is around
an hour or so after feeding and should
be done in a temperate room of around
25 degrees celcius. Prepare a blanket
for your baby to lie on, a clean towel
and baby massage oil. Make sure that
the lights are dimmed, that you are
in a quiet environment and that your
hands are warm before you start. You
can do basic massages to your baby's
chest, back and stomach and gently
stretch his/her limbs. Each session
can last around 20 minutes.
In addition, you
can also bond with your baby by creating
a special routine that you can share
during a diaper change. Here are some
suggestions:
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Keep
a checkbox or CD player nearby
and play music that's good for
humming or singing along. |
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Tickle your baby's tummy, wiggle
toes, name body parts. |
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Keep
one of your baby's favorite toys
nearby. |
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Decorate the walls, light colorful
patterns and shapes are baby favorites.
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Talk
about what you're doing - it helps
to develop your baby's language
skills. |
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